Do you want a girlfriend or the concept of a girlfriend? If she seems genuinely excited when you ask her out on the first couple of dates, things are looking favorable. But if there's something there, you owe it to the both of you to explore the possibility of an extraordinary relationship. No one likes me. Get in women-meeting-mode when you’re out and about. The dilemma I'm 21, I've never had a boyfriend, and something tells me I never will.Recently my best friend, who I've known since kindergarten, met someone – her first boyfriend ever.
You snooze, and you will lose.Opportunity usually presents itself when you least expect it. Karma is a real thing, bros. She can be a total bitch and kick you where it hurts if you let her. Believe it or not, most gals have the same insecurities that you do. Don't give up on a girl that easily. But we want our man to step up to the plate and show us we are worthy of the chase -- and the catch.Need I repeat: confident AF = hot AF = A+ boyfriend material.A guy who takes the initiative to make that first move is HOT AF. These are all crucial steps that lead to the ultimate goal: getting a girlfriend.Whether someone hurt you from a previous relationship you've been in or you're fearful of getting rejected, break down that barrier and start fresh. The worst that can happen is that she says no, right? Everyone has imperfections, and she certainly is no exception.And here's a little secret for you: Girls can be just as intimidated as you are to take that next step. She'll most likely get the point across by throwing compliments and expressing how much fun she had.
In line at the DMV. Take control and confront anything that's holding you back, whether it's the fear of rejection or another insecurity. It truly sucks that your parents were just children themselves when they had you, and that thanks to me they will never be together. Baby steps, remember?It's this simple⦠striking out is still more impressive than sitting on the sidelines.Trust me, if she wants to take this a step further -- as in a "legit" date -- you will definitely feel the vibe. Keep in mind that she will be the person you'll be sharing a lot of your life with, and she'll be opening up hers to you, too.Babe Ruth once said, "Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."Negativity will get you nowhere fast, in any situation life presents. You don't want to miss out on a potentially spectacular relationship because you waited too longâ¦and she met someone else in the process.Which leads to my next pointâ¦As I mentioned earlier, you can't time when that right someone will walk into your life. We've been hurt. I have very few friends but I'm just a social outcast to them. I really have faith in you with this one, and you should, too.Similarly, if she's totally not feeling it, you'll be able to tell that from her responses and reactions as well.A relationship is a natural transition. You went for drinks, and that's it. Being prepared to put yourself out there, having what it takes to win her attention and knowing how to use it will be key.You deserve better than missing out on something awesome, and so does she.Put yourself out there, and you may even surprise yourself. If you're attracted to her⦠Ask. So pick up on the signs, guys!
Get ready to approach her. You probably don't meet girls who stand out to you on a daily basis, so seize the opportunity.There is nothing about this scenario that should be awkward or embarrassing. Out.
It's easy to say, âI want to be single until I'm 28 or 30, then I'll find a serious girlfriend.â Well, good luck with that.Don't put pressure on yourself to place a label on things just yet.