We’re only invited over when they want something from us, are blown off when we try to make plans, don’t bring anything when they do come over, ask us to pick up all food and drinks when we are invited (when they expect my husband to do manual labor and me to clean), etc.During every step of the process of becoming a barber, this man has been like a guardian angel.
He's stubbornness makes me sick. She is a cool person and we have fun together often. Other times I get to see new parts of the world and it's an 8. We had a bit of a fight about it (that ended in me begrudgingly agreeing to not hang out with John and their friends and only to talk to John at work), and I have to admit I'm still upset.I thought it was all fine until I realized something while I'm staying at his family's house during this pandemic. I don't really want to have the discussion but he forced me so I told him that he cannot help me take care of children, it would be difficult for me and he knew for a fact that I won't be hiring any babysitter. Yet my bf is a social butterfly, always invited to parties and always talking to someone different. I want to break up because I'm feeling unsatisfied with the intimacy in our relationship, but I also want her to know how amazing and important she is to me.However the problem comes from WHY she doesn't want to have sex. Which none have.I think everyone here had some good points, but I wanted to address this part of your post in particular. Having to be on a (her) schedule and do her things to qualify as being a (good) boyfriend = not fun. Two self-actualized, smart, capable and mature adults in a relationship together is the way to achieve a good and healthy relationship.But I have noticed that all of the women that I've been attracted to lately have been 27+ (I'm 25). For this reason I would like to break up with her.She, who had been in a great mood the whole time, suddenly paused for a few seconds and asked if I was saying her butt looked fat. She started with how she needed a husband to stay in the country, and subtlety asking what I thought of marriage ect. My bf begged and pleaded with me not to. Thanks, man.I think my rant is over. He asked why. I am not a gambling man. This is true as she had the correct times for when we get in bed and start talking.
I live in a third world country wherein being financially literate is a big thing to us.
Now, make no mistake, I understand my role in a relationship and would not hesitate to do everything in my power to help my significant other. We end up dropping the gifts off or giving them to grandparents to give.TL;DR: My fiance told me he wanted to have kids but I told him no since he doesn't know how to do chores or even help taking care of our future baby.tl;dr: A traumatic experience in my GF's past has put her off sex. But not all women are the same, so I try to not judge the gender based on the actions of a dozen. We are rarely intimate, and she has confided in me before that even when we do have sex its mostly just 'for me' and while she enjoys it, she isn't interested in initiating. Anyone know any good psychiatrists?Now, neither of us have ever cheated or done anything untrustworthy. In a relationship, there will be aspects of my life that are not directly my fault that I can't fix.
He was spoiled rotten by his grandparents that's why he doesn't do any household chores. They went to high school together and share some of the same friends. Everything is expensive. I do have one divorce, but that was not the negative experience that a lot of men I have talked to have had. Would it be cool if I bought him a nice fly rod and reel, and just added a P.S. We've spoken about how this makes me feel a few times before, but she isn't able to change.